What if we decide to stay together? What if we radically choose not to retreat into our own right, but to search again and again for what unites us?
Two friends can no longer be with, but also not without each other. In an ultimate attempt to save their friendship, they go in search of the origins of their struggles and ways to overcome them. Or at least to understand them.
Because why is it that you can clash so hard with someone you just love so much? How far do you have to step out of your own comfort zone to understand the other person? And do you even want to?
Zeg me hoe het moet is a funny, uncomfortable and intense quest for connection and sincerity. For all the friends who don't understand why they can't stand each other sometimes, for all the children who no longer speak to their parents, for all the couples who are wavering between breaking up or keep looking for ways to carry on together anyway.